There are some weddings that feel like they could have been plucked straight out of a dream—and this one was exactly that. Imagine walking through the gates of a desert oasis, greeted by a carousel twirling with joy, a whimsical matcha bar serving up the prettiest green drinks, and yes, even a puppy ring bearer proudly strutting down the aisle. It was nothing short of magical.
This celebration, with its Enchanted Oasis theme, was one of the most memorable weddings I’ve ever attended. Palm Springs was the perfect backdrop, with its expansive skies and golden desert light setting the stage for a night filled with laughter, love, and a little bit of wonder.
A Whirlwind LA Visit
Our time in Los Angeles was centered around two very special occasions. First, I had the honor of attending a board meeting for InsideOut Writers (IOW). For those of you who aren’t familiar, IOW is a nonprofit dedicated to reducing juvenile recidivism by supporting currently and formerly incarcerated youth and young adults. Through mentorship, creative writing workshops, and ongoing guidance, the organization provides a safe and empowering outlet for young people to share their voices and rewrite their futures.
I’ve been involved with IOW for over seven years now—first as a mentor and now as a board member. It’s been one of the most meaningful commitments of my life, and every meeting reaffirms why the work matters so deeply. To be surrounded by people who believe in second chances and the power of storytelling is nothing short of inspiring.
The second reason for our trip was much more personal: celebrating the wedding of our dear friends, Cassey and Sam. After days of anticipation, it all came together in Palm Springs, with every detail curated to feel enchanted yet intimate.
Dressing for the Occasion
When the bride asked her guests to “dress with a touch of whimsy,” she really set the tone. She also had one special request—floor-length gowns only. For a black-tie affair in the middle of the desert, it was the perfect direction.
The dress I chose felt like it was made for this moment. With a fluted hem cascading in soft ruffles, sheer gathered layers that seemed to float with every step, and an elegant off-the-shoulder neckline, the gown struck the balance between timeless sophistication and a little playful drama.
I loved how the fabric moved throughout the night, catching the desert breeze as if it had a life of its own. It was more than just a dress—it was a piece that added to the magic of the evening, a look that felt equally fitting for a black-tie wedding, a gala, or even an upcoming holiday celebration.
Style Notes for Special Occasions
Finding the right dress for an event like this can feel daunting, but I’ve always believed that the right details make all the difference. A ruffled hem adds movement, sheer layers bring in softness, and an off-the-shoulder cut instantly elevates the silhouette.
If you have weddings, galas, or holiday parties on the horizon, don’t be afraid to lean into a look that feels like a statement. Opt for gowns that play with texture—think tulle, chiffon, or silk with draping. Pay attention to hems and layers that add flow and dimension, and choose a neckline that frames your features beautifully. Most importantly, find something that makes you feel as radiant as the occasion you’re celebrating.
The Beauty of Balance
What I loved most about this trip was the balance it struck. On one hand, there was the deeply meaningful work of supporting young people through InsideOut Writers, reminding me of the power of community and mentorship. On the other hand, there was the joy of celebrating love and friendship under desert skies, in a place that felt whimsical and alive.
Both experiences fed my soul in different ways—one through service, the other through celebration. Together, they reminded me of the many layers that make life so full.
Carrying It Forward
As I pack away this gown (for now) and say goodbye to LA until next time, I’m holding onto the beauty of these days—the carousel, the matcha, the puppy ring bearer, and the promise that even in the middle of the desert, magic can bloom.
If you’re stepping into a season of weddings, parties, or special events, I hope you find a dress that makes you feel like you’re part of the magic too. Because when the outfit feels right, it’s not just clothing—it’s part of the memory.
Here’s to meaningful work, enchanted celebrations, and gowns that make us feel our most confident selves.
